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Child Development
Children develop intellectually, physically and socially, step by step, in a progressive manner. Skills are learned gradually as a child moves through the stages of development. In order to provide an age appropriate program with activities that enhance the numerous stages of growth and development in children, the adult should have a good understanding of where the child is coming from, where the child is at currently, and where he or she is heading in the near future, developmentally.
The following information will provide a basic overview of patterns of development in the growing child.


The 6 Year Old Child

Cognitive Development
may reverse printed letters (b/d)
enjoys planning and building
doubles speaking and listening vocabularies
reading may become a major interest
increased problem-solving ability
interested in magic and tricks
longer attention span
enjoys creating elaborate collections
able to learn difference between left and right
can begin to understand time and the days of the week
likes taking responsibility for simple household chores
likes to make simple decisions
counts to 100
asks endless "how-what-when-where-why" questions
continues to refine concepts of shape, space, time, color, and numbers
begins to understand the difference between intentional and accidental
begins to understand differences of opinion
still has a short attention span (about 15 minutes maximum)
enjoys dramatic play

Language Development
Although language has vastly improved, when it comes to written language, it is common for six year olds to have word reversals or letter reversals. This is the result of perceptual motor skills that are not quite fully developed and are not necessarily an indication of dyslexia.
Ironically, schools today tend to push reading at the kindergarten level when many children are only five years of age or nearing the age of six. Yet, the cognitive changes that need to occur in order for a child to learn to read traditionally manifest somewhere around the age of 6 - 6 1/2 years of age.

Physical Development
skilled at using scissors and small tools
development of permanent teeth
enjoys testing muscle strength and skills
good sense of balance
can catch small balls
can tie shoelaces
enjoys copying designs and shapes, letters and numbers
can print name
long arms and legs may give gawky awkward appearance loves active play can be reckless (does not understand dangers completely)
is still improving basic motor skills
is still not well coordinated
begins to learn some specific sports skills like batting a ball
tires easily
dawdles much of the time
is fascinated with the subject of teeth
may become a more finicky eater
uses crayons and paints with some skill, but has difficulty writing and cutting
may resist baths

Social/Emotional Development
may have unpredictable mood swings
is quite sensitive to criticism
has a problem admitting a mistake
feels quite guilty about mistakes
evaluates self and friends
begins to impose rules on play activities
cooperates with other children with some difficulty
has difficulty considering the feelings of others
values independence
being with friends becomes increasingly important
interested in rules and rituals
girls want to play more with girls; boys with boys
may have a best friend and an enemy
strong desire to perform well, do things right
begins to see things from another child's point of view, but still very self-centered
finds criticism or failure difficult to handle
views things as black and white, right or wrong, wonderful or terrible, with very little middle ground
seeks a sense of security in groups, organized play, and clubs
generally enjoys caring for and playing with younger children
may become upset when behavior or school work is ignored

Ideas for Care Givers
Provide opportunities for active play. Throwing at targets, running, jumping rope, tumbling, and aerobics may be of interest.

Provide opportunities to develop an understanding of rules by playing simple table games: cards, dominoes, tic-tac-toe, etc.

Provide opportunities for children to do noncompetitive team activities such as working a jigsaw puzzle or planting a garden.

Encourage children's sense of accomplishment by providing opportunities to build models, cook, make crafts, practice music, or work with wood.

Encourage children's collections by allowing them to make special boxes or books in which to store their collections.

Encourage reading and writing by allowing children to produce stories with scripts, create music for plays and puppet shows, produce a newspaper, record events, go on field trips, or conduct experiments.

Help children explore their world by taking field trips to museums, work places, and other neighborhoods. Invite community helpers to your home.





























My Child Development Pages

The Infant:
(0 - 1 Year Old)


The Toddler:
(1- 2 Year Old


The Emerging Preschooler
(2 - 3 Years Old)


The 3 Year Old

The 4 Year Old

The 5 Year Old

The 6 Year Old

The 7 Year Old

The 8 Year Old

The 9 Year Old

The Pre-Teen Child
"What is necessary to change a person is to change his
awareness of himself."

- Abraham Maslow